Check these signs you’re too picky to accurately answer that question.
YOU’VE PASSED ON A GUY BECAUSE OF HIS SOCIAL STATUS
Place appearances above your personal happiness and you’re likely to end up lonely: or with a terrible person who just looks good in a suit.
YOU’VE DUMPED A GUY BECAUSE HE WAS TOO NICE
Keep passing on those nice guys and you’ll regret it later on. Maybe after your divorce.
YOU’VE TURNED DOWN MORE DATES THAN YOU’VE BEEN ON
How are you supposed to know that you like a man if you won’t give him a chance?
YOU’VE WRITTEN OFF A MAN BECAUSE OF HIS SHOES
Or the quality of his suit or anything else he wears. You’ve got to look past the wardrobe to find a man you like (and can dress later).
YOU HAVE A WISH-LIST
And it’s a mile long. Experts say you should stick to no more than five “must-haves” when you’re looking for a man. Take some time to think about what’s important to you and consider letting the rest go.
NO ONE MEETS ALL OF YOUR STANDARDS
It might be a sign that they’re impossibly high. You wouldn’t be the first woman who wasted her time looking for a man that doesn’t exist.
YOU HAVE A HEIGHT REQUIREMENT
And a hair requirement. And he has to have big hands. Broad shoulders too.
We all like what we like. But a long list of requirements just amounts to a lot of ways to cut a man out of your life…before you even get to know anything about him.
YOU ONLY DATE BALLERS
Do the Basketball Wives look happy to you? Money can’t buy everything.
YOU’VE WRITTEN OFF A DATE BECAUSE HE’S LATE
He messed up and you’re agro. But we all make mistakes. Give him another chance and make sure you’re not missing out on a good thing.
YOU CAN’T LET GO OF THE LAST GUY
Until you figure that out, no man will compare to what you’re holding on to.
YOU KEEP COMPARING MEN TO THE LAST GUY
Not all men are the same. But it’s hard to find that out if you won’t let any of them start off with a clean slate.
YOU WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK
If they’re more concerned with appearances than your happiness, they weren’t really your friends in the first place.
YOU’VE DUMPED A GUY BECAUSE YOU DON’T LIKE THE WAY HE KISSES
That’s an easy fix. Don’t let a few sessions of showing him what you like keep you from happiness.
Do you have a “type” but you don’t really know what it is? Not knowing what you want is a great way to not find it in every man you date.
BUT YOUR LIST OF DEALBREAKERS IS A MILE LONG
That’s not standards, that’s just a list of reasons to disqualify a bunch of people — including the one that could make you happy.
Written by Meg Butler
Madamenoire
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